Take it for what it's worth. Nobody is forcing anyone to play the game. Yes, some people (of various ages) can be a pain, but its quite possible to ignore them. If you can't ignore them, leave the area, go to another ocean, something. They've got just as much a right to be there as you.
In terms of the whole "needs to be more realistic" bit, I'd love to see a bit of blood or hear some swearing, but you're talking about Disney. Let me repeat that; you're talking about Disney. You know, the company with the lovable talking teapots and princesses and stuff like that? Oh, blood? They don't understand the concept. Everyone poops rainbows and bleeds flowers at Disney (figuratively, not literally).
Oh, and Captain Fear, my honors thesis this year is on why language is used certain ways, specifically words we consider to be "unacceptable." Its an interesting project.